5 Important Things to keep in mind in Friendship….

A) COMMUNICATE REGULARLY , NEVER MAKE YOUR FRIEND FEEL LIKE YOU ONLY MESSAGE OR TALK HIM/HER IN NEED ONLY….

B) SEND MEMES / JOKES , EVEN IF YOU WON’T BE ABLE TO TALK ON DAILY BASIS, DO SEND THEM FRIENDSHIP FUNNY JOKES OR MEMES …THIS THINGS WILL ENSURE YOUR PARTNER IN FRIENDSHIP THAT A CERTAIN MEME OR JOKE REMINDS YOU OF THEM….

C) CUTE FIGHT, LIKE WHEN ONE OF A FRIEND PUTS ANY REEL / VIDEO / MEME / JOKE/ AND TAGS ANOTHER FRIEND , FIGHT BACK HIM / HER BACK TO MAKE THEM LET YOU BE MORE CLOSER….

D) FACE-TIME OR NORMAL CALL TALK OR MEETUPS , DO TIMELY FACE-TIME , CALL TALKS , OR MEETUPS TO SHARE GOSSIPS….EVEN IF ONE IS NOT ABLE TO MEET DUE TO ANY REASON , WE ALL HAVE WHATS-APP , MESSENGER , INSTAGRAM VIDEO FEATURE …..

E) UNDERSTANDING / MISCONCEPTIONS ,SOMETIMES ONE MAY FEEL THAT THEIR FRIENDSHIP IS ONE-SIDED OR NO WORTH ANYMORE AND THIS HAPPENS SO WHEN YOU DON’T COMMUNICATE FOR SO LONG LIKE WEEKS OR MONTHS ..THIS FEELING IS NORMAL TO COME ….SO MIND THE GAP YOU ARE TAKING BECAUSE FRIENDSHIP IS ALL ABOUT MAKING THE EACH OTHER FEEL SECURED ….

Sometimes it happens that you are friends with someone and spending like hours together chatting , studying , or doing numerous things , but in the end you got to know that you were in one-sided friendship for so long and it makes you feel like a big fool you made out of yourself…..Trust me it’s a personal experience and this feeling of left alone somewhere hurts too much that you start to judge yourself on your behavior of understanding others nature and will make force you to think where you were wrong…

Friendship is not just about saying HI ! and just talking casually , because when this casual talk converts into deep friendship like sharing secrets, sharing gossips , making fun of others together ….These tiny things makes huge difference and sometime create huge misunderstandings…

So to avoid them try to make your bond stronger day by day ….and HAVE YOUR PARTNER IN CRIME FOREVER IN YOUR LIFE …..

Something about Life :-)

Suddenly a QUESTION pinched my mind , why am i not able to decide myself? I mean am 22 years old and fully mature enough to make decisions then, what is this thing that is holding me back.. Sometimes it feels that we have the power to decide what we have to do or what is right for us but then the very next moment it feels like what if my decision is wrong and if somethings really bad happens then what will I do , How am gonna tackle that situation. Negativity sometimes gets the whole hold over the thinking and makes the person’s instinct worthless to even to think of that idea ……People say that “one should be brave enough to have a greater hold on ones instinct and thinking but sometimes this thing does not helps too “

Well as a writer I need to gather myself and have a control over my thoughts and do something which gives happiness to myself at that moment because , A HAPPY MIND ALWAYS PRODUCE HEALTHY IDEAS AND GOOD LIFESTYLE …. As we are well aware of the current situation (COVID19) still prevailing in India and people are feeling helpless and at the same time tiresome too of seeing deaths all around and ambulances sirens all over the place . People are not even getting to see the faces of their dead loves ones before cremenation , long ques are there for cremating the bodies . People are even scared of going at the cremation places…

Inshort the lifestyle of people here has been changed significantly and though miserable too . So the least we can do is just PRAY for them and move on BECAUSE THIS IS CALLED LIFE . Moving on is important in life one cannot stay same throughout whole life for the things he/she has lost ..As they will also be reborn to do something better and you when you are still alive in the same life it’s your due duty to play your role and satisfy yourself …. We don’t live for others , we don’t work for others , we don’t earn for others But w do all these things for ourselves and that’s why we all are here serving ourselves the best we can …

As a HUMAN BEING I know my responsibilities and know how serve myself well enough to not have any regret in future life .. Everyone has a chance to make their lives extraordinary from ordinary ..DON’T YOU? .So gather yourself up and SAY HI! TO EVERY NEW DAY YOU OPEN YOUR EYES AND THANKS THE UNIVERSE TO LET US SEE THE NEW SUN AND GIVE US CHANCE TO BRING HAPPINESS AND AMEND OUR LIVES ….

Sighing off , Miss Chhavi πŸ™‚

Always Keep Smiling….

Epithalamion By Edward Spencer….

Her goodly eyes lyke Saphyres shining bright,
Her forehead yvory white,
Her cheekes lyke apples which the sun hath rudded,
Her lips lyke cherryes charming men to byte,
Her brest like to a bowle of creame uncrudded,
Her paps lyke lyllies budded,
Her snowie necke lyke to a marble towre,
And all her body like a pallace fayre,
Ascending uppe with many a stately stayre,
To honors seat and chastities sweet bowre.
Why stand ye still ye virgins in amaze,
Upon her so to gaze,
Whiles ye forget your former lay to sing,
To which the woods did answer and your eccho ring
.

To these what I say , these lines by Spencer made everyone believe that BEAUTY CAN BE EXPRESSED WITH BEAUTIFICATION … THE EYES OF BELOVED HAS WORKED WELL WITH THE WRITTEN DESCRIPTION….

The poet’s conception is peculiarly external only..The beloved is celebrated both for physical and spiritual beauty , yet she is absent as a person of autonomy .she is fully described and she is now not a simple person ..the body of the bride is now considered as fragmented into attractive and seductive parts…

Poetries are indeed a subject of appreciation , the way of describing the things with intensity and immense use of literary devices is appreciable …..Though Generation like us can’t understand it’s value ,but just by mere reading these lines and getting to know it’s meaning is quite SATISFYING …..

Stories Behind Stories!!

Stories Behind Stories

Everyone has a unique Story to tell, despite of the fact that , stories are just mere imagination or illusions , we prefer to hear to gear up our thought process and creative ability ….But the Question ? is what makes us to tell a tale ,that we never have seen anywhere, but striked our mind to create a new one ….We live in a worldy place where we are surrounded with numerous stories, that too have backstaged stories ….If we observe each person who is living has a tale of his own ..Just the difference is ,if he succeeds in doing or creating something inevitable or something that has never been seen before Then everyone will willingly read about his tale(Story) of uniqueness, And will be eager to find out what actually has he done that attracted the attention of millions of eyes on his/her story …..

This is a living truth that in order to seek attention one needs to do something that has never done or seen before …One has to be some utterly different , so that the eyes of the others can be laid on ones Art Work …But what’s the use of all this like Seeking attention, Doing anything Great , Being a role model , Being soo honored….

What if everyone leads a normal life , like with anyone noticing them , just as passersby or an ordinary person who lived across the street and do things on his/her own …..Today we are filled with the ocean of stories, fables , myths , facts etc…Why because some left their unfinished work to get it finished …Time doesn’t stop for anyone, Time changes ,Person changes , Generation changes ..What’s left with us ! Just their tales to listen and react upon ….

We share the same sky , same air , same sun and moon , same water and same atmosphere…Yet we always write about something which hasn’t seen before by anyone but experienced by special only ….…Never Just judge a book by it’s cover only maybe that’s just a mere overlook or overview of the the long tale …what’s Inside is just known to the one to diggs the deep inside hidden meaning , for Why this tale has been written ….

Find the answer to Why The Writer Has Written This story for readers? …..And not just focus on the written Try to gather yourselves and diggin inside the words writer or storyteller has used …Somewhere You will find The Actual purpose of Carving that Story !!

Why people can’t rely on their native Language !!!

Being a teacher I can understand why a certain language is important for one to learn .Because whenever I interacted with new students of mine , they always asks me ,”Mam why there is a need for us to learn others native language ,Why can’t we just converse in our own native language ????” At that time I need to answer very keenly because my answer depends on how will this put an impact on that child’s future learning ..

Today at-least everyone is in need to acquire one common language that everyone can understand….Basically if we talk about ENGLISH this Language is THE BASIC unit for everyone , even in schools also teachers are instructed to use only LANGUAGE ENGLISH .BUT why can’t we just normalize this thing , I guess if we are in our NATIVE country , it’s our right to speak whatever language we want , why we have made this thing a compulsion for everyone ….I have experienced this thing that if you don’t know the language the other person is speaking , they are categorized as INFERIOR …WHY the heck is this happening around us!!.

Every LANGUAGE is BEAUTIFUL …Because every Tradition , every country is unique in it’s own …Just stay as you are , BE who you are , if we can’t respect our language , our tradition then we are not dignified enough of our culture …We are enforcing ourselves into others customs ..AND THAT’S NOT WHO WE ARE OR HOW WE SHOULD BEHAVE. ..

Today we like to visit other countries ,WHY? Because somewhere we like their uniqueness , the way they express themselves , the way they embodies themselves….They are able to do because they know how acknowledge their NATIVE LANGUAGE .

As I said , every language is beautiful and unique , just like that learning new language is not at all bad , but a prestigious opportunity for all of us to gain new learnings …But making others feel inferior just for the reason they aren’t aware of your language is not what our culture taught us ….

BE COMFORTABLE IN WHATEVER YOU SPEAKS, WEAR , EAT , ETC. It’s your own life , make your own life T&C BECAUSE NO ONE IS GOING TO LIVE LIFE ON YOUR BEHALF , LET GO OF EGO AND ALL WHAT OTHERS SAY ….LET THEM CALL YOU CRAZY , OR ANYTHING…THEY ARE JUST SAYING COZ THEY CANNOT DECIDE FOR THEIR LIFE ….]

SIGNING OUT …..HOPE YOU LIKE THE BLOG …SEE YOU IN NEXT BLOG …

Have You Reached Your Fitness Goals!

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For a long time I have been planning to go on a strict diet routine in order to get β€œFIT” but as whenever my nose smells something tasty , I automatically went in that direction ….This thing frustrated me a lot , I heard many motivational ideas from family , friends etc but none worked out …So eventually I decided to go on self made diet routine in which I planned to eat all the things I want to eat without gaining extra KILOS ….

This plan helped me getting proper body shape without omitting my favorite foods from DIET . Though I feel like everyone has their own way to loose extra gained KILOS , thus I have mine too …In this plan of mine has some limited limitations , workouts , munching on some healthy yet tasty snacks , and a lot more .Actually I have a bad…

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Have You Reached Your Fitness Goals!

For a long time I have been planning to go on a strict diet routine in order to get β€œFIT” but as whenever my nose smells something tasty , I automatically went in that direction ….This thing frustrated me a lot , I heard many motivational ideas from family , friends etc but none worked […]

Have You Reached Your Fitness Goals!

Have You Reached Your Fitness Goals!

For a long time I have been planning to go on a strict diet routine in order to get “FIT” but as whenever my nose smells something tasty , I automatically went in that direction ….This thing frustrated me a lot , I heard many motivational ideas from family , friends etc but none worked out …So eventually I decided to go on self made diet routine in which I planned to eat all the things I want to eat without gaining extra KILOS ….

This plan helped me getting proper body shape without omitting my favorite foods from DIET . Though I feel like everyone has their own way to loose extra gained KILOS , thus I have mine too …In this plan of mine has some limited limitations , workouts , munching on some healthy yet tasty snacks , and a lot more .Actually I have a bad habit of munching on foods whenever I pass the kitchen .So in order to reduce that habit of mine I displaced it with other eatables ….

Naturally I’m not a health expert or any nutritionist but I tried this way and believe me it helped me , So I hope if you guys give this a try and help you gain wished body shape …Here my plan goes..First of all I don’t eat by looking at the clock ,so whenever I get time or as I said whenever I pass kitchen I ate something ,so following that below is “MY HEALTHY EATING SCHEDULE”

I generally start my day with two types of water , that I take on an empty stomach or as soon as I wake up …A) RAISIN SOAKED WATER B)CUMIN FENUGREEK SOAKED WATER WITH A FEW DROPS OF LEMON …I take these water alternatively Because having RAISIN SOAKED WATER everyday can cause diabetes so to prevent that the other day I take CUMIN FENUGREEK INFUSED WATER (boil with a few drops of lemon after being soaked overnight)….. Then after an hour I take a cup of GREEN TEA (ANY BRAND OR FLAVOR) I usually take Lemon Honey LIPTON green tea ….Has amazing health benefits and keep you fill for quite some time ….

Some says that in order to get slim body start taking more FIBER as in OATS in breakfast or even some recommends having it in LUNCH OR DINNER as well , but we all know that no one can have it all day ,How much However one is eager to have a strict DIET , So I SUGGEST my body to take it slow as “THINGS HAPPEN OVER TIME NOT OVER NIGHT” so take it slow and have patience That is what I did and still doing ..”BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, DON’T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF”

Then it’s time for BREAKFAST , now it has a habit of mine to have a milk coffee (blended ) while prepping up for breakfast , some prefer to have black coffee without sugar but I have my coffee with a mixture of milk and water and half a teaspoon of brown sugar (white sugar will be ok too) ….Usually it took me approx 45 minutes to prepare breakfast and during that period I have my coffee (Benefits : easy bowel movement and nice appetite ) It is usually said by some dietitians that skip breakfast and directly have lunch ,In short INTERMITTENT FASTING but I guess , Morning breakfast is important as our body starve for more than 9-10 Hours (Though while we are asleep we don’t realize that we are hungry ) but we need energy to fuel up our body for further day functioning .So I don’t skip my breakfast at all….If I talk about what I usually have in my breakfast then being an INDIAN I use have FLATTEN RICE (POHE ) VEGETABLE QUESADILLA (CHILA ) UPMA (SEMOLINA RECIPIE), SANDWICH , OATS CHILA ,sometimes SAMBHAR IDLI (south Indian) etc ,But all these are cooked in either MUSTARD OIL OR OLIVE OIL OR GROUNDNUT OIL so all are healthy and utterly delicious (Have a look over the quantity ) Small portion at a time …

Because I’m a TEACHER by profession so I need to take online classes so I prefer to have a GAP of 5-6 hour between my breakfast and lunch , But it’s not like that I DON’T munch on snacks , whenever I had sometime I drink JAGGERY AND LEMON infused boiled water , actually I focus on HOW can I SUBSTITUTE my snacks with something made me feel like full so THIS water ( A BIG JAR) helped me a lot during that period also sometimes I munch on LAYS , CHIPS , LEMONADE But that’s ok ……Also this JAGGERY LEMON infused water helps you feel light on stomach when you feel you have over ate ( TRIED AND TESTED) ….

In the evening it’s time to have lunch , but for others to have some evening snacks and tea or coffee or else , BUT I can tell on weekends when my day goes usual like I take everything on time , I preferably make steamed semolina or chickpea savory cake ( In Indian recipe book – White Dhokla and Khaman Dhokla) with Mustard seeds tempering over it , So if the dish is steamed NO NEED TO WORRY ABOUT GAINING ANY SORT OF WEIGHT) (Again have a watch over the QUANTITY – small portions )

Then it’s probably Night time to have dinner , it is true that we should have our DINNER before 8 or till 8 pm and should have LIGHT meals , just because at night it’s not possible for our body to digest heavy foods and in order to maintain that one should munch on light meals like PORRIDGE , CEREALS OR SALAD (Best option ) on week days I don’t eat DINNER for most of the times , but on weekends me and BROTHER usually have late night MAGGI , PASTA OR SOMETHING WE CRAVE FOR . but on week days I had my lunch nearly at night time so I skip ……

All there is only one thing to say , Don’t starve yourself just to get slim , as I know everyone wants to look dashing and beautiful to flaunt in dresses and moreover to have a healthy LIFESTYLE..IT’s just that’s there are ways to achieve that goal ..I believe not everyone can follow DIET charts LIKE ME but :-

1) Doing a 30 min WALK.

2) Drinking warm water whenever feels thirsty.

3) Munch on small portions of meals , just act like feast your stomach after short breaks and have whatever you want to eat .

4) Have a good early rest and naps and Best quality NIGHT Sleep .

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